During gay sex, if you’re engaging in foreplay and sucking his cock while he’s laying down, keep licking, kissing and sucking as you move your mouth down towards his balls. It’s one of the easiest positions for a top, and not especially difficult for a bottom.īefore that, though… the foreplay. This gay sex position may sound boring, but it’s not, we promise. Interested in finding out why some guys are top and some are bottom? Here’s a scientific study from 2017 that talks about it.