Why would a 16 year old boy WANT and INSIST that his 12 year old little sister have sex with someone.? Isn’t that the opposite of how older brothers are to act with their little sisters? I feel like this has to be some sort of sexual abuse. but it’s been bothering me ever since I learned that they were coerced/manipulated/pressured into having sex by a much older sibling. But he told me it was actually bc the girls older brother (they were 12, the brother was 16) actually insisted that the 2 of them have sex. Recently, one day I asked him how they ended up having sex I had assumed that it was two close friends who happened to be the opposite sex and decided to do it just out of curiosity or something. The girl was beyond just a tom boy, she looked like, acted like and sounded like a boy. They grew up living next to each other and were extremely close as friends. We went to middle school together and I remember hearing the rumors about him and the girl. My husband lost his virginity when he was only 12 years old.